Love Angels

Welcome to the latest blog from Test of Love.

Have you ever met someone who you thought is worth your time and then you realized it was a mistake? Yep, I know. You feel so bad about it, right? Don’t worry about it. There are many people out there who make the same mistake over and over again. Either way, you can’t blame them for trying to find a special someone. People weave through all the bad ones in order to get to the good ones. In order to do that, you should look for signs that will make you realize that this person is worth your time. For instance:

Test of Love sign 1) Talk is cheap. They have to prove what they say. There are many people out there that will just not do what they say. If all they do is talk the talk and not walk the walk, then move on.

Test of Love sign 2) Strong Chemistry. If you have a strong bond with each other from the start, follow your intuition and go with the flow.

Test of Love sign 3) Past relationships. I know most people don’t like to mention their past relationships, but this is a good way to know the person’s past behaviors.

Overall, it varies for people from time to time. If you see those simple signs, you will know that this person is worth your time.

I Love You

Wait a minute, what’s wrong? Why are you single again? You can’t find someone 
who is suitable to your needs? The Chemistry wasn’t there anymore?

I met people who have been through that. They feel it’s not necessary to continue a relationship because the chemistry wasn’t there anymore. In my opinion, their intention to break off the relationship wasn’t a selfish move. I rather say this is a good move because you don’t want to continue a relationship that will not work. The longer you wait–you will hurt the person’s heart.

Now, if you are the victim of this mess. Don’t worry about it. They might have a good reason why they broke off the relationship. It’s for your own good because you don’t want to end up being heart broken.

For some reason, people just cheat in this situation. I think it’s dumb and stupid, and people will judge your commitment to others. Like the saying goes, “Once a cheater, always a cheater”.

Anyways, back to the topic. If you are single again, be prepared to be back in the market after you feel it’s time to be with someone else. For some it might be hard to meet new people and for some it might easy. Just don’t give up. There are plenty of fishes in the sea. Just don’t go on the wrong sea! (Hehe…ok, that was lame).

Love

Test of Love question 1. You are walking to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s house. There are two roads to get there. One is a straight path which takes you there quickly, but is very plain and boring. The other is curvy and full of wonderful sights on the way, but takes quite a while to reach your loved one’s house.

Which path do you choose? Short or long?

Test of Love question 2. On the way, you see two rose bushes. One is full of white roses. One is full of red roses. You decide to pick 20 roses for your boyfriend/girlfriend.

What color combination do you choose?
(Any combination including all one color is fine.)

Test of Love question 3. You finally get to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s house. You ring the bell and the maid answers. You can ask the maid to please get your loved one, or you may go get them yourself.

Which action do you take? Ask the maid or do it yourself?

Test of Love question 4. Now, you go up to your girlfriend/boyfriends room. No one is there. You can leave the roses by the window sill, or on the bed.

Where do you put the roses? Bed or window?

Test of Love question 5. Later, its time for bed. You and your loved one go to sleep, in separate rooms. You wake up in the morning, and go to your boyfriend/girlfriend’s room to check up on him/her. You enter the room:

Is he/she awake or sleeping?

Test of Love question 6. It’s time to go home now, and you start to head back. You can take either road home now: The plain, boring one that gets you home fast; or the curvy, sight-filled road that you can just casually take your time with.

Which road do you choose? Short or long?

Analysis

Test of Love analysis 1. Which road do you choose to take to your love’s house?

The roads represent your attitude towards falling in love. If you chose the short one, you fall in love quickly and easily.

If you chose the long one, you take your time and do not fall in love easily.

Test of Love analysis 2. What combination of roses do you choose to give your love?

The number of red roses represent how much you expect to give in a relationship. The number of white roses represent how much you expect in a relationship. Therefore, if a person chose all red with one white, he/she gives 90% in the relationship but expects to receive only 10% back.

Test of Love analysis 3. Do you ask the maid to get your love, or do you do it yourself?

This question shows your attitude in handling relationship problems. If you asked the maid to get your loved one, then you may beat around the bush, maybe asking a third party to intervene. Avoidance of problems runs high.

If you went and got your loved one yourself, then you are pretty direct. If there is a problem, you confront it and deal with it. You want to work it out right away.

Test of Love analysis 4. Where do you put the roses? On the window sill or on the bed?

The placement of the roses indicates how often you’d like to see your boyfriend/girlfriend. Placing the roses on the bed means you need lots of reassurance in the relationship, and you’d want to see your loved one every day, if possible.

Placing the roses by the window show that you don’t expect or need to see your loved one too often.

Test of Love analysis 5. Do you find your love asleep or awake?

Finding your boyfriend/ girlfriend asleep: You accept your loved one the way they are.

Finding them awake: You expect him/her to change for you.

Test of Love analysis 6. Which road do you choose to go home?

The short and long roads now represent how long you stay in love. If you chose the short one, you fall out of love easily.

If you chose the long one, you tend to stay in love for a long time.

Broken Heart

So you’ve been dating a while or are considering having a long term relationship with that person. You’ve been together a few months and now the newness of the relationship is starting to wear off. You know the I can’t stop thinking about them all the time, part. Or they just has my head dancing all the time. This is also known as the infatuation. Every relationship new or old has had it. It’s the part of the relationship that made you two fall in love with each other.

Now it’s gone. Now you’re asking yourself is this person the right person for me? Below is the aiz that could end the relationship or bring the fire to an intense heat of love. Be ready for the answers you may not like what you are about to hear.

Test of Love question 1. What is important to you in a marriage situation?

This is a definite thought question. Watch his body language as he is thinking of an answer. Is the answer honest and though our or does it come off as an answer he thinks you want to hear?

Test of Love question 2. What are your long term goals for your life.

Most of us women want to know if those goals have any mention of us in them. If those goals

are all geared towards work or something outside the relationship we may want to move on.

Test of Love question 3. Where do you see our relationship in the next 3-5 years?

Make sure you have been together a while before you ask your man this question. The thought

Of being with somebody in 5 years can be a pressure question and scare your guy off. Of course if that happens then you two are finding out early on whether or not this relationship will be long term.

Test of Love question 4. What is it about me that you wish you could change?

This will give him the opportunity to get his pet peeves out into the open. However  this shouldn’t be a session where he’s going to rail you for the next hour.

Test of Love question 5. What are your thoughts on money?

Is he a spender. If he has been pretty loose with his money during the infatuation phase by showering you with gifts etc getting the answer to this question is paramount because if he actually is a freewheeling spender he’s got a stash somewhere or he’s going to be broke in a short amount of time.

Test of Love question 6. What caused your last relationship to end?

You’re looking for a well thought out answer. If he begins to pass all the blame on to his last mate as to the end of the relationship he’ll be doing the same thing when yours ends. Look for him to put some of the blame on himself for the most truthful answer.

Test of Love question 7. How do you feel about our relationship when we’re not together?

This will tell you if they are secure with themselves because if they say that they can’t stand to think about you being with another person when all you do is go have lunch with friends you have a big time controller on your hands. Better to find out right now.

These Test of Love questions may be best answered when you two are not together. Take the questions and work on them alone and separate then make time to get together to go over your answers.

Remember to keep in mind this Test of Love relationship quiz is only a start to get you two to communicate openly about things that you don’t talk about in your everyday conversations.

Love

Welcome to this article from test of love.

So you’ve been going out for a awhile and you have passed the test of love to know wether or not you are in love. Now your relationship has kind of hit the ole regular routine.

Here are the top seven ways to show your love and get the romance back into your relationship.

Test of Love tip 1 – Have a pad of sticky notes and leave love notes and some little thoughtful gift like candy. Leave the note where the love of your life is certainly to find it.

Test of Love tip 2 – With the invention of the internet we have become reliant on emails. Try this. Go to the store and buy an actual greeting card expresses your true feelings for your partner. I guarantee this will put a spark into your next rendevouz. It’s a nice surprise to find something other than bills in the mail.

Test of Love tip 3 – Call and leave a love not on your partner’s voicemail. Make it a well thought out “love note”.

You will get a guaranteed phone call in just a few minutes. The secret here is to call and leave an actual voicemail. This works like magic.

Test of Love tip 4 - How about a nice picnic lunch by the beach or in the mountains or just some little gets away spot. One of my favorite places is right by a running river. You get the relaxing sound of the water running and a nice peaceful day out to explore each other and get caught up with each other. You’ll be surprised how well this works to put a little romance into the routine.

Test of Love tip 5 -One really nice thing to do is to take your boyfriend or girlfriend to some of the places you used to hang out at as a kid. Remember the old pizza place you used to hang out at before you went to the skate rink. This is a terrific way to let your sweetheart really get to know you.

Test of Love tip 6 – If you are always going out to dinner or the movies plan on a nice romantic evening at home. Rent a movie and get his or her favorite snacks. Get a movie like The Proposal” or “Notebook” an nice finishing touch on this is to buy one red rose along with their favorite snack. Sometimes we get so caught up in the noise of the world that we tend to block each other out.

I hope that you find the time to fit some of these things into your love life. You’ll find that you don’t have to agonize over ways to be romantic again. With a little more research you’ll find many more of these little things you can do to spice it up a bit.